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Strlightsky135  

About Strlightsky135

My name is maria and I'm a single parent of a 3yr old and a new born baby girl (born 09/17/09). In July of  this year I ended up going on a web site for mystery shopping, which me being unemployed and pregnant at the time tought would be a good part time job for myself. I later on tried the job and recieved checks in the mail and cashed them, and followed special instructions to wire money. I didn't know much about mystery shopping and I ended up following instructions and ended up being scamed for my money (as well as losing all my money in the bank). I was devistated and went trough depression. Right now I'm barely hanging on day by day, with unemplyment that barely make's my car payment and car insurance payment. I barely have money to buy clothes for my 3yr old, myself, and my new born. I would really like donations of diapers and whipes, and I' m slowly waiting to get better to start searching for a job. Any kind of donation would greatly be appreciated.

Thank you and God Bless  

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jloarjr  

3 CHILDREN BACK SURGERY AND OFF WORK NEED HELP BAD. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE ONE GETTING DONATION FOR PEOPLE DURING CHRISTMAS AND TIMES OF NEED FOR OTHERS MAYBE IT WILL COME BACK AROUND NOW THAT I AM THE ONE IN NEED?

THE LAST TWO YEARS HAVE BEEN THE WORST EVER EVERY TIME WE THINK IT CANT GET WORSE IT DOES FIRST I FELL OUT AT WORK. THEY PAID ME WORKERS COMP FOR 8 MONTHS AND SENT ME TO THIER DOC HE EVEN SAID FIRST THING I NEEDED SURGERY BUT THEY WANTED TO EXHAUST EVERY OPTION WHILE HAVE ME DRIVE 8 HOURS EVERY WEEK WHEN I COULD BARLEY WALK BUT I DID EVERYTHING THEY WANTED. THEN WHEN I COULDNT TAKE IT ANY MORE BETWEEN THE PAIN AND BEING OFF WORK I FINALLY WENT THROUGH WITH THE SURGERY WHICH THEN THEY STOPPED MY WORKERS COMP. SO I WAS SUPPOSE TO BE IN BED CLOSE TO 6 MONTHS AFTER THE SURGERY BUT I WAS BACK TRYING TO WORK AFTER 2 MONTHS BECAUSE WE HAD NO MONEY. THIS CAUSED PROBABLE A LOT OF PROBLEMS SINCE I DID NO THERAPY OR ANYTHING AND I WAS CONSTANTLY MISSING DUE TO SEVERE SWELLING AND NOW I HAVE SOME REAL BAD NERVE DAMAGE IN MY LEGS AND BACK. ALL THIS HAS BEEN IN COURT FOR THE LAST YEAR AND EVERYONE SAID WELL THERE IS NO WAY THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH THIS AND THEN I WENT TO COURT AND THE JUDGE EVEN DECIDED FOR ME SO FINALLY EVERYTHING WAS GOING TO GET  BETTER. WRONG THEY APPEALLED WHY SINCE THERE IS NO WAY FOR THEM TO WIN I DONT KNOW BUT THEY DO. I BE THEY WON THEIR APPEAL SO NOW I HAVE TO APPEAL. WHAT A MESS I DONT THINK THE SYSTEM WORKS VERY WELL. DURING THIS TIME MY FATHER HAD TO HELP US QUITE A BIT AND ONE DAY I GOT UPSET TALKING TO HIM ABOUT HELPING WITH RENT AND HUNG UP ON HIM IT WAS ONE YEAR AGO ALMOST TODAY THAT WAS THE LAST TIME I TALKED TO HIM. I HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. AND I WISH THAT WAS IT BUT I HAVE THREE WONDERFUL KIDS THAT HAVE BEEN LIVING THROUGH ALL THIS WITH ME BLESS THEM AND OF COURSE THEIER MOM. WELL THE OLDEST IS FROM MY X ANDD I HAVE HAD CUSTODY SINCE HE WAS BORN. NOW I HAVE TO COME UP WITH 5K SOME HOW JUST FOR ANOTHER CUSTODY BATTLE SHE KNEW I WAS OFF WORK WITH BACK PROBLEMS AND THOUGH SHE COULD GET A CHANCE TO WIN CUSTODY MY CHILDREN ARE MY WHOLE WORLD. ITS JUST ONE THING NOW AFTER ANOTHER WE HAVE TO COME UP WITH ENOUGH FOR AN ATTORNEY TO FILE BANKRUPCY ALSO. AND I MAY EVEN HAVE TO FILE FOR SOCIAL SEC. DIS. IF SOMETHING CANT BE DONE ABOUT MY BACK. THEY BEEN TELLING ME THAT FOR YEARS BUT I WANT TO WORK I CANT STAND THE THOUGHT OF IT. PLEASE IF THIER IS AN ANGEL OUT THIER PLEASE GIVE ME MY FAITH BACK.

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